I’m Not Competing With You – I Want You to Win Too

In high-performance spaces, competition often wears a sharp smile. I’ve been there for 20 years—in the boardrooms, pitch meetings, and cliched power lunches where ambition is currency and comparison a constant undercurrent. I noticed something early on: men tended to go shoulder to shoulder, moving forward in unspoken alliance. But women? We were placed face to face, pitted against each other, performing, defending, subtly undermining.

A zero sum game.

Attempted control through comparison. Amplified by competitive traditional female figure-heads caught in the trap - out of touch and without any ground-breaking vision, but sharp claws. Sound familiar?

It wasn’t our fault. We were taught there’s only room for one at the top. That if she gets the promotion, the client, the applause—you lose. It’s a scarcity script, and it’s broken.

I’m not playing that game anymore. I’m building something different.

I teach women a new formula for success: Own lane. Own race. Own pace. When you truly embody this, there’s no need to compare, compete, or shrink. You’re too focused on becoming who you’re here to be. Building the new healthy infrastructures.

Success isn’t a pie with limited slices. It’s an ecosystem. And when one woman rises in her full integrity, she doesn't steal the light—she becomes a lighthouse.

I want you to win too. I want us all to win—deeply, in ways that feel good in our bodies and real in our souls.

This isn’t soft. This is power.

And it’s time we lead with it.